Healing Two Kinds of Trauma
Most of my work in private sessions involves helping you or your loved ones leave chronic emotional, physical, or life-disorder suffering behind. You know, the kind mainstream healthcare or traditional life coaching don't resolve.
Why Talk About Trauma?
These problems have their roots in emotional trauma--that is, unrepaired experiences of overwhelm still resonating in your nervous system. It pops into mild (or strong) fight, flight, or freeze mode when it shouldn't.
According to the latest and best research, a wide variety of kinds of suffering all stem from this kind of trauma.
But There's Two Really Different Kinds
But trauma comes in two forms, and it takes different tools to clear these. That's why I've spent the last 2 years studying the exploding field of energy psychology.
One form involves the residues of experiences you've actually had in your own life--personal trauma.
While the other one didn't actually happen to you. You are resonating out of deep, subconscious love to unresolved experiences others in your family system went through.
Working with Both Kinds
Actually, there is a fascinating interplay between these two forms that results in 3 different situations from the perspective of healing. I've learned the best ways to clear all of them.
Essentially, I bring to your unique situation a range of healing tools that suit it best.
Pure Personal Trauma
Sometimes we're dealing with personal trauma, pure and simple. In my sessions, we resolve that using Energy Psychology and Shamanic Techniques to clear the old overwhelm, and my certified, transformational coaching skills to replace trauma-related habits with new, positive ones.
Doing the deeper clearing and the behavioral change at the same time works better and faster--with results that last.
Pure Family System Trauma
But fixing something that did not happen to you personally is different from resolving what did. If the problem's in the network, so to speak, you won't affect it by working on your laptop or tablet. If the switch in your lamp is broken, fine--work on the lamp will fix it. But if it's not getting juice, you need to look at the circuit breakers.
Here, Family Constellations--the great missing link in so many healing efforts--is the premier way to help you give overwhelming fates of ancestors back to those who actually experienced them. It's not helping you to try to carry their karma, and it greatly helps them (in or out of the body) to come to terms with their own fate, their own experiences.
Left over loyaties to unresolved issues and events in their family's past are anchoring suffering in a great many people's lives.
Mixed Family and Personal Trauma
Then sometimes, it's clear that the family system overwhelm that a person carries has caused in turn new, usually similar personal experiences of overwhelm in their own lives. Here, my private work with clients really comes into its own, because we can move as needed from the personal to the family level and back again.
Energy psychology (in my case EFT and WHEE) and coaching in my experience work quickly and efficiently on the personal level if you are motivated to change. And constellations, as I said, are the royal road to healing the flow of life and love in your family system--so that you both free and well supported to live your own (not an ancestor's) life.